I thought I would write up this post since it happened again to me.
To start off with I am on Facebook. I play the games on it, keep up to date
on what is going on with my husband who is a semi trucker for the entire country,
old school friends I live far from and family. One good way for my mom to know
how I am doing and what is going on since I don’t talk much on the phone from
how sick I have been. Which will be in a different post.
But on Facebook I add people from around the world to play the games with and
some are amazing people. I will admit I added a couple bad seeds that I unfriended right away.
In the past it was indian men from over seas hitting on me, innocent stuff. Even they knew I was married.
Something I have on my profile and have admitted to them to. But tonight’s was horrible.
The worse one ever. Now I have been sent gross texts before.
A former boyfriend and friend from school in the middle of the night
texted me his erect penis… No idea why either. Never asked. Showed the
text to my husband the next morning after he woke up and he told me what to do.
I unfriended him, blocked him on Facebook too and ignored his texts from
that day on. It took about two texts to get the hint that I was no longer
going to speak to him. He is a single father and knew I was
with my husband. For god sake he knew my husband in school too.
Well tonight… this man I added, thinking it was for a game I recently posted on the game
main page to add me for more neighbors, so I added him. A couple minutes later
he started to talk to me. Innocent. Like he’s 37 turkish man and what am I.
I told him 34 american. Then he asked if I was married, I told him yes.
He seemed upset but about a minute later messaged me again saying he’s
a lonely man. So being the idiot I am I told him I hope he finds someone
soon. Well of course me the moron should of known better… That was a huge NO.
He went on saying he was a hot sexy man and I’m nice. Asked if I liked hot men.
I was honest and said nice kind men. Like my husband who is a huge
sweetheart. Well that led to him messaging me two erect penis pics of himself.
The two before that was his face and him laying on the bed, I found the latter to be a tad odd.
Well I couldn’t see if he was nude, thought I saw tidy whites in the pic.
Dumb me I know.
Well I was about to block him, while I was working on a few games. But
he said he was a bad man and he’s sorry. So being the good girl I am…
I accepted it and he said I was a sweet nice lady. Well of course woman you should not
keep talking to him. But for some reason us Pisces feel bad if we hurt people.
And I thought I was going to do that if I blocked him after he apologized.
I know I should of not responded to him but I am too kind for my own good and I always get
myself in these situations. (sigh). Well he sent another pic of his
erect penis. I went and blocked him immediately after that.
I knew it was wrong to talk to him and I was uncomfortable. But men who
contacted me before and hit on me were innocent and after awhile
stopped talking to me.
I know I should know better and I should of not spoken to him, but I have this
bad habit of feeling terribly guilty if I ignore a person who talks to me. Pisces are known
for being too kind and too nice for their own good. And as the saying goes,
the nicest always get hurt the most.
I ended up tweeting like 20 tweets about this when I blocked him.
It’s kinda sad that a woman can’t even be on the internet without perverts
coming onto them and hitting on them when they are taken and
are not interested. But that is the sad reality. We have to deal with this.
I like talking to new people. I have a friend on twitter and he’s also
on Facebook, a very kind sweet married man who recently became a grandfather
from Japan. I am glad I met him. I add people just to meet new people since
I am anti social you can say in real life.
I have been a huge shut in for awhile. Since I was a child in fact and after my OCD kicked in
and my husband became a trucker, it got so bad, I became terrified to leave my house.
I needed to get stuff, I bought it online. And only left the house when he had home
time and could take me somewhere. I am now getting out of the house to shop
with my mom but I still do not leave the house for anything else.
I am too shy to meet people in RL but online it’s easier. I am still
really shy but I am hidden. No one can see me. So I feel safer talking to people.
It’s sad for people like me to be extra extra careful to meet people and just talk.
I am going to try to be more careful about talking to people that I immediately get
an odd feeling about when they try to message me on Facebook, but I know it will happen again.
And the weird thing, is that these men who hit on me all the time, are men
from East Indian countries. Only from that area. I don’t get hit on by other
men from other countries online. And I don’t understand why either. I thought men in those
countries didn’t do stuff like this to women because of how we are to be
totally covered up. I guess I still have alot to learn about people. Something I find hard
to do since I am too trusting of people and always get hurt in the end.
Please don’t take me wrong, I am not trying to be racist and I am sorry if I am coming off
like that. I am not racist. I am just pointing something out. Something I find odd.
But he did stop talking to me while I was trying to block him. My computer was
messing up while trying to do this. He stopped talking to me when I said
I do not use the webcam on my laptop.
Something I never use. I hate it. I find I look weird with it and my
room is always kept dark so I never even tried to learn
how to use it.
I just wanted to share my experiences with perverts. If anyone would like to,
please feel free to do so.